How many times does someone have to hurt you before you cut a toxic person out of your life?

How many chances do they get to prove they can be better?

What if that person is family? Does it change anything?

It's time we return to our favorite board on Reddit, AITA. For those not in the know, AITA is short for "Am I the A$$hole?"

Responses can vary, but are usually one of these:

NTA – Not The A$$hole

YTA – You're The A$$hole.

Today's story sees a woman with the usernamekait0923, who has a cartoonishly racist family, do the very thing that would make those sorts of people upset.

"I (Caucasian F26) married (Filipino M 28) 2018. Everyone in my family is married to someone Caucasian, literally no-one is in a mixed relationship."

"About 2 years ago I met my husband and we've been in love ever since. My parents never approved of our relationship and gave me an ultimatum. If I didn't leave him they'd kick me out and never speak to me again."

Okay, so, not a great opening. I feel like you get the vibe when your parents tell you break up with the love of your life and the only thing they know about him is that he's not white.