“POOR” COUPLE EARNING LESS THAN $10K, BUT “RICH” BECAUSE FAMILY IS SAFE & HAPPY
Singapore Uncensored·2024-03-02 07:05
I gave up my poly study at year 2 and work as a teller cos I couldn’t bear my younger brothers being affected my my family situation and they couldn’t concentrate on their studies. So I chose to work to support my parents and siblings.
No one will understand how it is like when your friends need not bat an eyelid on Starbucks but you have to refund EZ-Link card to use the money to buy dinner for the family cos your payday is on the next day and will credit in midnight.
My husband (back then still boyfriend) never once say anything or complain. But he was equally poor???? staying in an one-room rented flat. We saved every single cent, dates were usually at hawkers or foodcourt. We held our wedding dinner at a Chinese restaurant and even ‘earn’ back our dinner cost with money for overseas honeymoon.
Now with 2 kids and staying comfortably in a 4-room HDB flat, combined income still below $10k, we never once feel ‘inferior’ as compared to our peers. We are ‘debt free’ as our cpf have surplus to cover the housing loan monthly. We have no car, no condo, restaurant meals seldom exceeded $80 for fam of 4 but we are contented.
Our nights are spent chasing dramas on the bed, no drinking at pubs, no cafe hopping as all these are $$$$ and $$$. Kids during their free time, play bubble guns at the corridor, Nintendo switch and mobile games. All these activities really no need much money but still keep us occupied.
Guess god ‘compensate’ my hard life by giving me a good husband albeit we are defined as ‘poor’ in today’s context. Some may have a rich boyfriend/hubby but still unhappiness over 3rd party or debt issues.
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Peter Chia4522 04/03/2024
cgrts on being rich in heart n soul . luckily your husband chose u , u are such a virtuous wife. considerate n understanding . May you n family enjoy gd health n happiness for many many yrs to come .
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General X 02/03/2024
Complacency can leads to unseen disaster, while the kids are still young do upgrade yourself for more stormy days ahead. Don't have to compete but keeping ahead of time is your best bet when those kids grows up.
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Useri4jn 02/03/2024
As long we are contented with what we have at present, it is really good because to be contented in life is no easy stuff cause there are thousands and one things that really tempting
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Daniel Chow reply Useri4jn 02/03/2024
U r bless my dear mdm. i m retired n was once even poorer then a church mouse. i salute u. Not all of us are born with a golden, silver or lrast a wooden spoon. live yr life n be happy most important is the 4 wall in within n a condusive home. Now tat i m comfortable i alway remember to get out of povery u hv to be resourseful n hard working. Nobody owe us a living. Most important is no DEBTS. God bless u n yr family. Hv a great wkend.
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Teobehpio reply Useri4jn 04/03/2024
Good morning and has a nice day and good breakfast and thank for your information and totally agree with this comment thank
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Brian Patrick 02/03/2024
ha ha usually kids spoil financial planning...lots of parents whrn kids are NOT RI'able and HC'able start throwing thousands dollar tuition...if you can accept education is a means not an end that will be last bit of financial security
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mindfulness 06/03/2024
another piece of propaganda from the PaPeeClowns
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