I’m tired of being lonely. I’m a 23 year old woman and I’ve never had any type of relationship. Anyone I’ve perused has shot me down and at this point I’m at a complete loss. I don’t know what I can change. I don’t know what to do but I’m so lonely it hurts.

I thought, maybe I might be too shy, so I try to put myself out there and be personable.

I thought, maybe I’m not pretty enough, so I do my hair nice and fix myself up.

I thought, maybe I’m too fat, so I lost all the weight.

I’m not sure what else I can do. I don’t know what else I can change. I try my best to be pleasant and fun, I try my best to be lovable. But at this point it feels like no one will ever love me. I feel like I’m just going to have to accept that love isn’t in the cards for me.

Anyone struggling with the same thing, can y’all give me advice on how to cope with this? I’m having a really hard time valuing myself and I’m tired of crying.

Netizens’ comments

“But at this point it feels like no one will ever love me.” Is it that no one will ever love you, or that the ones who do you dont want?

Im asking cuz almost every woman i know has some guys in the “friendzone” who she knows would treat her right, but she is so focused in finding “the one” that she almost doesnt see them as another man.