29 Y.O DAUGHTER CONTROLLED BY MUM, GO OUT AT 10PM FOR SUPPER ALSO NEED PERMISSION
Singapore Uncensored·2024-02-19 12:03
I’m 29 years old, female.
Recently, my boyfriend of 1 year has a job that requires him to work long hours, so he proposes I stayover at his place occasionally. His family is very welcoming, and I have slept at his place before (in secret). However, I’m thinking of making it a regular thing and I really am tired of concocting lies to my mum.
Some of you may say at my age I don’t have to ask for permission, but my mum has a very traditional and conservative mindset.
From multiple episodes in the past, she also behaves very explosively when angered. I have tried broaching the topic before, but she thinks sleeping over at my boyfriend’s place makes me look very ‘cheap’ and this may cause my boyfriend’s family to disapprove of me.
Knowing my boyfriend and his family for the past year, I can say with certainty they are open-minded and definitely don’t care about any of those.
At this point in my life, I want to think about my career, buying a flat, starting a family, and not worrying whether my mother will allow me to stay over or whether I can go out at 10pm for supper.
I also don’t want my boyfriend’s impression to suffer, as she may think I’m ‘rebellious’ as I’m being led astray.
Seeking everyone’s opinion, I’m at wits end.
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Darren Curtis 23/02/2024
😂😂😂😂😂 This era still have curfews for nearly 30 years old?
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Ah-Fool 23/02/2024
Don’t worry. 29 is considered young. My friend is 39this year, and she is a single mom staying with her parents. And yes, her mom, is also controlling her as well. Remember, in eyes of parents, no matter how old you are, you are still their kid.
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Praise God 22/02/2024
Stay over F already no need permission.The seal already broken. Second hand shoes already na or r u just a black oil tank woman ??
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User patrick 21/02/2024
parent always worries own flesh...even how old u are still their precious child...maybe ur parent are too precautions and worries too much or they think u have not matured yet even have 29yo body ....
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Choc_Divine 24/02/2024
This one 29 still stay with parents.. I 21 move out already. Early age already know how to live independent.. until when want to depend on parents??
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