Regarding the demands made by the woman in question, they are unreasonable and indicate a lack of understanding of the nature of a healthy and equal partnership.

Here are some reasons why:

Dowry: Requiring a dowry of RMB380,000 is an excessive demand that places an unfair financial burden on the man. In many cultures, dowries are not required, and when they are, they are typically much smaller and symbolic.

Past marriage: Disqualifying a potential partner based on their past marriage is a narrow-minded and discriminatory demand. It is essential to evaluate a person based on their character and compatibility, not their past relationships.

Monthly salary: Requiring a monthly salary of RMB 30,000 is an unrealistic demand that places undue pressure on the man to meet her financial needs. A healthy partnership involves mutual support and cooperation, not financial dependence. He is also required to surrender his monthly salary.

Parents’ living arrangements: Requiring the man’s parents to not live with them, while allowing her parents to do so, is an unfair demand that prioritizes her needs over his. A healthy partnership involves compromise and understanding, not one-sided demands.

Physical appearance: Requiring the man to be 1.8m tall and handsome is a superficial demand that places undue emphasis on physical appearance. A healthy partnership involves evaluating a person based on their character, values, and compatibility, not their looks.

In summary, the demands made by the woman in question are unreasonable and reflect a lack of understanding of the nature of a healthy and equal partnership. It is essential to evaluate a potential partner based on their character, values, and compatibility, not their financial status, past relationships, physical appearance, or ability to meet unrealistic demands