I fell in love with someone who is 40 yo, still lives at home. I have recently found out alot about him that gives me doubts. He takes money from his parents.

Every 3-4 months one of his parents’ FD accounts matures and they ‘give’ him the interest. It’s over $8k each time, all of their savings.

He works part time, 30 hours a week cos he wants more time for hobbies. He takes home around $2k per month. He doesn’t give his parents any money.

His almost 70yo mum buys everything for him including vitamins, daily food and snacks, all his meals, soap, shampoo, etc. He doesn’t do any chores. His parents even gave him the master bedroom cos he is now ‘grown up’.

Parents are middle class, his mum still works but wakes up early every morning to make or heat up a huge breakfast for him and usually buys his dinner. He will skip lunch so he has more disposable income for hobbies.

Personality wise he’s fun, easy to talk to and we have a similar sense of humour and hobbies. I’ve felt so comfortable with him compared to any other guys I dated. I enjoy his company alot. But long term?? I don’t know.

He is not generous with me. Forgets to pay me back for meals, etc. He doesn’t have any plans to move out of his parents flat anytime soon cos he said it’s quite comfortable. How can there be a future with this guy?