Guys, does it matter if the girl you date or marry is a V or not?

Please be very honest. I am curious to what men think about this topic in this day and age.

On a side note, I was really worried because I come from a fairly traditional family and I was waiting for marriage. Went on a date some time ago, got too drunk and lost my v-card.

I felt so guilty and it didn’t help that the guy said he is down for just dating but couldn’t offer me any commitment beyond that. He didn’t want marriage or kids and didn’t want a relationship until he was sailing well in his career.

So no commitment for the next five years.

I felt really hurt and it isn’t helping that my period is late and I am freaking out about a possible pregnancy (chances are really slim as I took the morning after pill and pregnancy tests are negative so far).

But I feel like I screwed up my own future? In my native culture, arranged marriage would have been an option to fall back on had I been 30 and still single. But that might not be an option anymore! I am also not sure if someone new I date in the future will mind my past.

If I somehow am pregnant, the dad would not be in the picture I am pretty certain (and he went back to his own country so that complicates things), and my parents will probably disown me. My only saving grace is I earn pretty well enough to support a kid and myself.

This is such a sad situation and I will always have a lifetime of regret in having my first time with someone I didn’t love.

Anyways that btings me to my question, does it matter to you it the girl is not a V?

words like damaged goods being used…