BF “CONFISCATES” GF’S CREDIT CARD AND USE IT FOR SHOPPING
Singapore Uncensored·2024-03-16 12:03
I’ll preface by saying that Me (27) and my boyfriend (30) have been together for 3 years an a half.
I’ve been jumping from one job to another while he has been unemployed due to health issues that affected his performance at work.
Usually, I’m the one handling bills, groceries, etc. I use my credit card to make any purchase I want.
Last week, My boyfriend out of nowhere asked for my credit card. I asked why since I’m the one who handles payments and supermarket trips.
He told me he wanted to buy some food and I agreed to let him take it but told him to return it later.
He got back later and when I asked about my credit card, he was like “what credit card?”. I thought he was joking so I told him to just give it back. He said he’d just keep it with him.
I asked why and he said so he could start handling paying for stuff on my behalf. I felt uncomfortable I said I’d rather not burden him with this stuff and asked him to hand over the credit card. He refused and said that “he’ll just keep it” since it doesn’t have that much money anyway. I was livid. I tried to argue but he told me to “just trust him” and let him keep it and swore he won’t spend a penny from it.
Next morning I went and canceled it, then registered a new one. He must’ve tried to use it because he called and was confused asking why the credit card was not valid anymore. I told him it was because I canceled it and registered a new one.
He lost it and started scolding me saying he couldn’t believe I had this level of petty and kept on about how I don’t trust him with my finances. and how financially abusive I have become lately. I hung up on him.
The argument continued at home and he called me paranoid and unreasonable and all that. Then he started cold-shouldering me and sulking about it for days. I do feel like I hurt his feelings and showed an amount of distrust towards him.
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Alice tanhai ping 19/03/2024
goodmorning 早上好啊
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Userdwq9 17/03/2024
This guy is a parasite. Leave him for good. You will be better of without him
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Tony Tan8490 17/03/2024
Don't know why she stay with such guy who although not working due to some health issues but is this really so called that kind of truth love that they choose to stick with each other even facing such situation
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Lim Chun kiat 16/03/2024
another 没出息。。。run away far far!
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Daniel Chow reply Lim Chun kiat 16/03/2024
Chuck him....dont be love is not blind. If u r u will forever suffer n into credit card n other debts for him. Dont carry his burden. All the shit of ttust are jyst bullshit. DONT TROUBLE TROUBLE TROUBLE UNLESS TROUBLE TROUBLE U. So tell him Adious. Better of by yrself n dont turn back.
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Astro KW 19/03/2024
Dump him! He is a useless, lazy (?) bum who is too comfortable to have you as his ATM.. 😒
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