Boyfriend lied about going to sleazy KTVs (advice needed!)

Boyfriend’s company has a history of visiting KTVs that offer hostessing services (i.e in his words girls pouring drinks, dancing, skimpy outfits in private rooms who accompany them the whole night)

He claimed that he was pressured to go and lied that he was at a work meeting but I found out afterwards.

Claims that nothing happened but nothing for me to verify, his words against mine. He does seem truly sorry but I think he was only sorry cos he got caught. If I didn’t catch him, he would have kept up the lies.

What would you do? Any bros that visited this type of KTVs before? What usually happens there?

Edit: Honesty I think I would understand if he told me beforehand, as his company usually have alcohol-involved parties/clubbing on a regular basis which I’m completely fine with. But it’s the part that he LIED & would have continued lying.

from my understanding a LOT of $$ was thrown, same girls stayed there whole night

Netizens’ comments

Sounds like he’s just gonna keep doing it as long as he’s still working in that company, and you’re gonna continue to be not okay with it.Personally I wouldn’t be comfortable with a partner being in such places, I’d be thinking what kind of job is that and is it alright to change to some other company or work that doesn’t require such entertainment etc.I’m not the one with your partner and don’t know all the good things about him and stuff that you have gone through together etc. so you have to think for yourself about whether you can accept it and whether the good outweighs the bad or not. Probably gonna be a point of conflict each time it happens and stuff like these will accumulate over the years.

Let me guess, your boyfriend is working as in insurance agent, isn’t he?

If his job involves going to such places to entertain clients etc… you either have to accept or break up or unless he’s willing to change his job. Sleazy KTVs are sleazy for a reason. It don’t stop at just seeing the chiobu dance only.