I at the time (28F) and Boyfriend (29M) moved in together after a year and half of dating.

Originally lived under my parent’s roof. Purchased a house in the beginning of 2021 in my name. That’s when things started getting weird. When it came to remodelling or painting our place he always gave me a lame a$$ excuse why he couldn’t help me.

Like “I’m a terrible painter” or “I have to work on my videos”(He’s a YouTuber). I ended up painting the whole house myself (mind you I’m only 160cm) it was a lot of work for a very small person.

I felt accomplished non-the less. It was almost a year in the house when I started to notice something was up not just in our relationship but him in general. He had become distant and I couldn’t figure out why, I thought it was something I had done.

Turns out he was cheating on me!

When I asked for answers to who the girl was, or where he met this other person he gave me nothing but BS lies. He did admit that he was seeing her for 2 months (that means he was seeing her and I during the Holidays while he was living under my roof.)

I originally gave him until the end of the month to leave, but I couldn’t even look him in the face. I was disgusted by him and couldn’t stand being around him. It bothered me more that he wouldn’t tell me anything about the person who broke up our relationship.

The reason he was hiding it so hard, was for to the fact that he was still seeing her even after we broke up and he was still in my house. The only reason I found out was that I looked through his phone (which I paid for).

I called her up and told her what has been going on she broke up with him as well. Ex called the police on me and said I stole his property (the phone had already been returned safely in his possession).

Nothing was in his name not even the bills. I packed up his things after that incident and he left on his own accord.