For the love of Kathryn Hahn, never give Mrs. Fletcher’s Brendan your Snapchat.

Brendan is the spaced-out son in HBO’s dramedy series from creator Tom Perrotta, who also wrote the 2017 New York Times bestselling novel of the same name. The story follows Hahn’s Eve Fletcher, a divorced senior center employee who has a sexual reawakening after she makes searching porn sites her new hobby. Meanwhile, Brendan (played by Jackson White) just moved out and immediately became a wannabe college frat boy who stops at nothing to try to get in bed with the next girl he sees. Even if that means sending unsolicited late-night pics.