While so many of Taylor Swift‘s pals congratulated her on her engagement to Travis Kelce, or even just hit “like” on that iconic Instagram announcement, one person has been noticeably absent from the celebrations: Swift’s former BFF, Blake Lively.

Fans quickly noticed that Lively has yet to like the post, publicly comment on it, or anything of the sort. And before you ask if she’s even online, she definitely is. Lively celebrated her 38th birthday on Aug 25 and has been posting all the tributes and celebrations to her Instagram story.

So, Swift gave no word for Lively’s birthday, and Lively hasn’t done anything for Swift’s engagement? Fans are now convinced their friendship may be done for good, but the glimmer of hope for many is that Lively still follows Swift on Instagram. So only time will tell.

As many know, Swift and Lively were besties for a decade, but it all went crashing down when Swift was dragged into Lively’s legal drama with Justin Baldoni. Swift got added to Baldoni’s countersuit, and in this countersuit, Baldoni revealed texts in which Lively seemingly referred to Swift as one of her “dragons” to defend her.

At the time, insiders claimed Swift “doesn’t appreciate being referred to as one of Blake’s dragons” and “can’t help but feel used,” according to another Page Six article. (There have been reports of a reconciliation, but nothing concrete yet on either outcome.)

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