If you’ve ever lost someone close to you, then you know that grief is an unpredictable and endlessly bumpy journey. And while time may heal some wounds, there’s no such thing as a rulebook on how to continue living without someone you love.

For Kelly Rizzo, Bob Saget‘s widow following his unexpected passing in 2022, she’s learning how to mourn first-hand, and the world hasn’t been afraid to criticize her every move. Most recently, she’s caught some slack after announcing her relationship with Clueless actor Breckin Meyer.