I really need some perspective on my marriage right now. My husband and I both work full time with me being a secondary school teacher, and we also have two children in primary school.

I also work a side job as a baker for extra income. For years my husband and I have argued over the amount that he games online. If he ever gets a free hour, that’s what he does.

So, for example when The kids are in bed, I’m usually tired so will go to bed but he will game. Now this isn’t a big issue for me, what is an issue is his set in stone gaming nights.

These are Tuesdays and Fridays (or Saturdays is something comes up). On these nights he is gaming and is to be left alone. I will go to bed and that’s that,

however I want to spend more time with him on the weekend evenings and have tried to move the weekend day but he is having none of it.

I feel that he is online every evening with mates and rarely come to bed until late. I have tried to compromise but it’s a losing battle.

I really not sure if it’s me that blowing things out of proportion or Jim being selfish but honestly, he is online ever evening…can I not just get the weekends with him ???