Relationships are hard and even celebrities — who seem to have it all with their stunning looks, money, fame, and career success — suffer heartbreak, too. Just look at the whole Grace Chow-Show Lo break-up fiasco.

The latest celebrity to put her love life in the limelight is Carman Lee, best known for playing Xiaolongnü, or Little Dragon Maiden, in the 1995 martial arts drama The Return of The Condor Heroes.