My wife thinks that I am disgusting for removing my eldest son B (30) from my will.

For some background, my youngest sister was married to a man of a different race and she had his child, my niece. My sister died during childbirth and her husband died from covid shortly after. My mother adopted her and now she does her best to raise her but she’s elderly and her health is deteriorating. My wife and I do our best help out from time to time.

My youngest son A and his wife are fond of her and help out as well. B’s first interaction with her was awful he called her a derogatory word and said we shouldn’t be raising a monkey. My mother screamed at him and banned him from her home and she said she didn’t know how we raised a racist child and until we got his act together he would never be allowed in the vicinity of her home.

My wife said that we can’t force our son to like “other race” her words not mine. Once I got home I immediately asked him to move out until he can apologize to my niece. My wife threatened to divorce me and called an animal for “abandoning” our child. I screamed at her and said he is 30 years old it’s long overdue for him to be out.

I left and went to work with my youngest and told him what happened, he thinks I’m blowing the whole thing out of proportion and that only my mother was right to ban him from his house.

When B asked to stay with A he told him no and that he should apologize so he doesn’t get left out of the will. B told my wife and she locked me out of the house, I am currently staying with my mother.

Here’s where I think I might be the jerk I called the police on my son to make him leave and told my wife she was a “Beach” and not only a “Beach” but a racist “Beach”.

I have a will because I have heart disease and wanted to have everything organized incase I die.