My father has a mistress on the side and the entire family knows about it. However, my mother advised me to keep quiet for the sake of maintaining the status quo and I reluctantly agree.

However, recently, the mistress developed a long-term medical condition and my father is spending alot of money to try to cure her.

As a result, our family finances are badly affected, e.g. our june family vacation had to be cancelled and the COE on my car will not be renewed.

Should I still keep quiet about the mistress or is it time for me to do something about it?

Also, another related question: Whenever the mistress is hospitalised, my father always likes to spend the night at the hospital with her.

On the other hand, when my mum or I are hospitalized,  my father never stays overnight with us.

I want to ask: Is intercourse common when someone of the opposite gender stays the night in your hotel room? In other words, I want to know whether my father is staying overnight just for the s*x or if he loves his mistress more than my mum and me.

Netizens’ comments

QQ- why does your dad have to pay for your COE of your car?? Dun you work?As for your parents, word of advice. Stay out of it. Even if you voice out your unhappiness, what kind of outcome u want? Think carefully before you blurted out everything.

Your thinking is messed up. You’re more worried about getting money from your dad than him hurting your mom and the family.And no you have no right to speak up. Your mother tells you to shut up then you shut up.