(not real names)

My son is dating Gina.

I don’t usually judge other people’s relationships, but if someone asks if their relationship is healthy, I would say no.

Currently, my son is taking a supplementary course to pass the medical entrance exam.

Gina is a very needy person who always enjoys talking to my son a lot and tends to get nervous when he takes too long to respond.

When she’s with him, they stay together from afternoon until dawn the next day to continue later.

I try to show him and talk to him, but he says I’m seeing things in something I don’t have and asks me to stay out of it.

This period of the year is the time of the exams that are on odd days. In addition to the cost of the test, there is transport + food. There are 6 tests, 6 weekends. I’m taking him, because he just got his driving license and his nervous.

Last week, Gina came over and on Saturday, hours before we hit the road, there was a little celebration for her birthday (Wednesday). My son and she argued in it.

It was a long jamming drive and he had to turn off his phone, because she kept calling while he was driving.

On Sunday, they had a fight early before he went to the exam (even though I told him not to answer). The exam would be in the morning and afternoon. In the afternoon, he left in the minimum test time.

Apparently, he left much earlier, he couldn’t do half the exam, because he couldn’t focus. It was the easiest test in the history of his school.

I was quiet the first few days, but I threw the cards on the table.

Me: “Son, the relationship is yours and I really shouldn’t interfere. The exams are yours and the future is yours. But I’m spending a fortune for you to go to these exams, I take you places and I found it disrespectful you left in the middle of a test because of Gina, because that test was the most important of all and you were more concerned with trying to work things out with your girlfriend. So the relationship and future are yours, but if all that is being a huge expense of my money, then it becomes my problem too. Take a “”break”” from the relationship, talk to Gina about how much this is interfere, otherwise I’ll stop helping and you’ll have to do the tests on your own** (added), because you’re old enough to turn around.

He started saying that I shouldn’t make ultimatums with other people’s relationships and that I know** he is financially dependent on me, abusing this position.

I didn’t ask them to break up! It was in the sense of calming things down to take the tests.