no matter what i do for my gf, her family n friends has never approved of me.

Since we started to date, she felt that her life quality as dropped. She said she given up a lot of things for me and she been feeling quite mentally exhausted. She been wanting me to proposal to her and getting our marriage but i feel that currently, we’re not ready yet. We’ve also been quarrelling for even small matters, she always think that she’s in the right and i’ve been purposely finding faults to argue with her.

She always get angry for no reasons. That day her mum asked me to help her buy stuffs and since she said she tired from sch, so i picked her up and send her home first. But she get angry that i didn’t told her that her mum asked me to help buy items and she felt that buying those stuffs unnecessary. She argue with me said that i don’t bother telling her what’s happening and then she throw mine items on the floor, take scissors cut the shirts that i owned. While picking those items she thrown on the floor, she been raising her voice until whole building could heard the arguments.

Sometimes she love to play “cold wars” with me for no reasons, suddenly block me for hours/days then don’t want pick up any calls/messages. She allergies to crabs so when we eating, she insist of eating crabs but i said no. She angry and then walked/dump me there while we’re dinning.

She also angry that i don’t share salted eggs potato chips with her when i ordered like a bulk of it and she probably ate like 90% of it and i eat probably like half a packet. Saying how ” I don’t love her anymore, don’t cherish her anymore after we’re dating”. She said how in her family, what she wants to eat n etc, ppl will always ask her, share with her and they don’t snatch with her snacks to eat.

So one of the days, i requested her to walks the dog as i was busy with presentation and since for the past few days, it was raining so the dog didn’t manage to be out of the house. She said i’m treating her like a maid, asking her to follow my order. She never touched dirty things in her life. for example, when the dog shits. i’m always the one picking up the poops. In her family, she ate alr just dump the plate/bowl at the sink/basin, for someone in her family to wash. She also don’t tidy up her room, sweep floors and etc, was always me when i go her house to help her housekeeping her room.

She also have a bad habits of wasting money on unnecessary. She always like to go cinema to watch movies , probably like every week. But i’m the one paying for it since she doesn’t have any income. She also rant that i am unlike other ppl bf, buy for their gf accessories.

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