As someone who has been in a long-term relationship for many years, I can say that it can be a minefield of emotions when it comes to trying to keep things interesting and exciting.

My partner and I had been together for a few years and had become quite adventurous in our explorations of different activities.

We had talked about trying some kinky activities, and one night, I made a suggestion that I soon regretted.

I suggested to my partner that we should try choking each other when we were engaging in intimate activities. I had heard other people talking about it, and it seemed like something we could both enjoy. Little did I know that this suggestion would have such a profound effect on our relationship.

My partner was hesitant at first, asking me why I wanted to do this and if it was safe. I reassured him that it was something we could try and that it would be a fun way to add a bit of spice to our activities.

I also told him that it was perfectly safe if we did it right and that I would never ask him to do something that would hurt me.

Little did I know that my partner would take my suggestion very seriously and would become obsessed with choking me during our intimate moments. He would often demand that I let him choke me, and he would become angry if I refused. He told me that it was what I had wanted, and he wanted to make sure that he was pleasing me.

At first, I found the choking exciting, and it added a new level of intensity to our activities. But soon, I began to feel scared. I had no idea how far my partner would go, and I was worried that he might hurt me in the heat of the moment. I tried to talk to him about it, but he refused to listen, insisting that it was what I wanted and that he was just trying to make me happy.

Eventually, I had to put my foot down and tell him that I no longer wanted to try choking, we eventually came to an agreement that we would no longer engage in any activity involving choking.