My boyfriend went to a Thai disco and didn’t tell me. I feel so betrayed

My boyfriend of 5 years went to a bachelor party last weekend, and when he got home, I asked him what they got up to and he told me they just went to bars and hung out.

Yesterday I was at the bachelorette party, and the bride told me that they had gone to a thai club. Now, I have nothing against those girls, like, get that money from creepy dudes, but that’s who goes there in my opinion – creepy men that just want to objectify women.

If he had told me that they went, I wouldn’t be mad, just kinda disappointed.

But the real reason I feel betrayed is that when I asked why he didn’t tell me, he said he was embarrassed and that he really wasn’t into it. But I knew that the guys made a pact not to tell their girlfriends/wives. That infuriates me. And so this means my boyfriend lied to me twice.

I then asked him if he hang any flower and he said no but there was a lot of money missing from his wallet. I knew he had a lot of cash on him as he said he will be bringing around $500 for the party.

When he came back he barely had $40 left.

Never in a million years did I think he could ever lie to me, and now I really don’t know how to feel other than just betrayed.