Hi everyone! Any advice here? Been together with my gf for more than 3 years and she has already started work for more than a year while I’m in my final year.

However, she kept wanting me to marry her and get a resale flat. The thing is, I haven’t started work and her pay and cpf isn’t enough to pay back the HDB loan if we are to get a resale now.

I always tell her about the financials and how much money is needed to get married, repair and renovate a resale house, and how much it cost to get a resale mature estate. She doesn’t seems to care and don’t think about the money aspect. She feels money will drop from the sky, money is not an issue, and I just want to wait because I don’t want to marry her.

I do but I get stressed out over money issues. Haven’t start work yet, how to afford? I’m from a low income family, how can I even ask my parents to help me with financials when I want them to retire when I graduate this year? Help…

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agree on a realistic deadline and proceed regardless, there will always be new financial problems to solve everyday

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You SERIOUSLY need to drop her. In many ways, your wife screwing you over money is much much worst than cheating. At least when she cheats (hopefully) you dont lose your money. Just face.