I have been with my GF for two years. So far so good, with some problems. However things have been weird.

My girl has been working with this dude, lets call him Sam. They have been working with Sam for 1.5 years and she mentioned him a few times but said nothing other than the fact they chat at work and have some shared interests. So i was like ok cool.

I’ve noticed she started putting more make up on than usual and also putting on lots of nice smelling perfume that I like before work.

I have come across some information, which i wont get into details about, that my gf and Sam are at times extremely flirty and get “touchy” with eachother. They playfight at work where shes like grabbing him, she allows him to touch her face, she even allowed this guy to tie her up to a desk and blind fold her with a ribbon as she was giggling and basically this is their vibe.

As you can see, they don’t take work seriously and goof off with eachother.

I am trying to see if these are “normal” colleagues encounters or there is something there?

Here are what netizens think:

You know this isn’t normal and you’re hiding information about the guy… good night and good day

I’m sorry she’s putting you in this position. It’s not very respectful of your relationship and could very easily lead to resentment depending on whether or not there have been any other trust issues.

While you may have been with her for two years, I think you need to take some time and think about whether or not these are the kinds of character traits you want in someone you choose to call “partner”. The disrespect towards me alone would be enough to start considering “sunk cost fallacy” and reconsidering the relationship.