I (32m) walked in on my girlfriend (24f) cheating with a guy (39m) she told me not to worry about. Should I tell the guy’s wife about it?

Walked in on my ex-girlfriend and this guy in our apartment at the beginning of the month. She had been telling me not to worry about him since the beginning of our relationship a year and a half ago, but admitted to sleeping with him on a camping trip in June and a few times after that.

He is married with a pregnant wife. I don’t know if he’s told her that he sleeps around or if she knows, but I doubt it.

I looked her up on Facebook and am thinking about messaging her. I’m angry, and a lot of it is revenge, but I think that someone in her position would like to know that information.

Should I tell this guy’s wife about his affair?

Netizens’ comments

If someone had known your girl was cheating on you would you like to know?You could have avoided walking in on them if you had known about the camping trip when it happened.

For what reason would you possibly be thinking of not telling her???? It’s crazy to me that people actually sit here and won’t tell other people that their health is being put at risk- never mind the health of an unborn baby.If you are remotely any kind of decent person you would always tell the partner what’s happening. If you are the kind of person who doesn’t tell-you have the same kind of morals and levels of integrity as the cheaters themselves.

Yes tell her!! She has every right to know and who knows what he has been doing behind her back. They both deserve their karma.

“You don’t have to worry about him/her.” People really need to realize this is code for you 100% need to worry about them.