GIRL’S BF IN NS, EVERY WEEKEND ASKS HER TO BOOK & PAY FOR HIS GRAB HOME
Hi guys I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about 3 months now. He’s still in ns and is taking home a very pathetic salary.
Ever since we started to date, he’d ask me if I could book him a grab home (He stays in the west, camp is in the east).
I don’t mind booking a grab for him to go home cos I know he’s very tired and if I was in his shoes, I’d want to reach home asap too.
However, this is taking a toll on me. I don’t work so all the money spent on him is my pocket money from my parents or my own savings.
Recently, my boyfriend has been asking me for more money (like $50 or $70) but they’re all very legitimate reasons so I’d love to help him out too (I can help him but then I’ll be left with very little for myself).
He’s quite a nice guy and pays for most things when we’re out (I’d say it’s a 3:7 ratio so 3 me, 7 him). He also pays for my grab when we go home/sends me home.
Is this a red flag?
Huh just stop taking grab home?? Don’t have money then don’t spend
how can a guy live off a girl?? Plus he has allowances from NS. If he cannot manage his own finances then you shouldn’t need to be responsible for him
Take bus can sleep on bus mah, longer journey home = longer sleep. Take cab not shiok la
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kktk 21/03/2024
and then we have people who are not so matured and regardless of the situation and circumstances to make sure we are always well and safe at all times especially in the midst of this period
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