Im tired of getting sh*t from my partner everyday.

I’m 25F dating a 21M , we started out okay and then gradually went worst.

He always brings up things that is in the past that did not even relate to him, like the things i did before i even met him.

Its crazy that i dont even know that i will meet him or know him. Things like playing online games with other guys before i met him and he proceeds to get angry and ask me delete the game or whatsoever.

I never even played that game anymore nor even talk to my guy friends anymore, completely cut them off since he dont like me playing with guys.

Every time he brings up something that i did last time before i met him, he throws a tantrum like everything is my fault for not playing or going somewhere with him first, this is next level crazy.

The things that i brought up to him was things that happened in our relationship time that he wasnt suppose to do, like not telling me he was playing with a girl and flirting with her when i was sleeping until I found out by myself.

Things that cross boundaries like spending money on other girls and telling me he has no money for me even to the extend of buying hawker centre food!!!

He even ask me to pay for his portion. I felt really mad when i saw his account, donate money to girls and i really cried the whole time and it was just easy for him to brush off and not even thinking it was anything wrong.

I dont want to control his spending but to this extend that i have to pay for his food when im not even well to do. Its ridiculous.

He will tell me not to bring up the stuff that happen between us and what he did but yet he can complain and scold me for the stuff that i did when i wasnt even in a relationship with him yet.

Better yet, he never felt he was wrong or any guilt when he does that to me! His famous line is STFU.

I do really love him and forgive him at times as sometimes he does take care of me well but i dont like this side of him.

Its stressful, idk how to resolve this relationship problem, just asking for an advice on how to deal with this.