Does anyone else feel tired of having to ‘jio’ everyone for everything? Can’t we just do things by ourselves?

Whenever you do something and others know about it (could be friends/colleagues/SO/classmates/etc), they will say “bojio” and get annoyed/disappointed that you didn’t invite them beforehand.

It could be really minor things like you bought coffee to office and your colleague say you bojio and never help them buy. Or maybe you went out for lunch alone and didn’t inform them.

Back in school, it could also be just you finishing an assignment and your classmates say you bojio because you never tell them you were working on it.

Or when you meet your friends once in a while and happen to mention that you watched a good movie with another friend some time ago, they get annoyed that you never jio them.

Or you went for a morning hike alone and your SO says bojio even though it’s an activity they would never want to do.

Are we socially obligated to invite everyone along to all our activities? Why can’t we just do things alone? I really dislike this bojio culture about Singapore.