GIRL HATES SPENDING MONEY & GOING OUT WITH FRIENDS WHO SPEND $20+ ON MEALS
Don’t enjoy going for expensive meals with friends
I’ve always been earning lesser than my group of friends and am a simple eater. Before my financial commitments started I kept quiet about shelling out more cash just so I can spend them with them.
Now that my financials are tighter, I really don’t enjoy spending so much on meals ($20/pax to me is extravagant but they go way more).
I don’t drink so sometimes they remember to minus my share (if I ask), I’ve been declining going for gathering because I simply don’t enjoy the spending.
The conversation topics are boring too — usually gossiping about people. Or money things (cars, property, etc). They also like to stay out late whereas I like to be home by 10 and slowly go to bed early.
These are good friends whom I know will be there for me if I’m ever in a difficult situation. But I don’t enjoy spending time (and money!) with them.
What should I do? Sigh.
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Astro KW 22/04/2024
Sime Answer, Don't go... 😒 Everybody has different financial situations, they probably know yours if they are friends.. Just tell them, or join them once in a while.. Upto what you can afford & Enjoy! 😘
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