this has happened to me multiple times where men will take me out on extensive dates, talk to me every day for weeks, simply as a ploy to get me to hook up with them.

Once they get what they want they stop taking me out on dates and only want to see me at night.

over and over again i think someone wants to get to know me but it’s never true. i don’t get why other women get married and date multiple people, while i’m constantly being manipulated and used for a hooker.

i’m so tired of men devaluing me to only a body. i’m not only pretty, but also intelligent, funny… i can actually hold a conversation.

but not one person has ever cared about that and i’m losing hope that anyone ever will. i try to be happy for my friends who easily obtain love but now im just hurt.

im so tired of being manipulated. im so tired of being insulted. just once i wanted someone to actually like me. i’m turning 26 and have never dated anyone. it hurts really badly.

i want more for myself but i cannot beg anymore to be treated well. i’m so tired of asking.

if you are someone who takes women out on 2-3 dates and pretends to care about them just to sleep with them, you suck. please just join tinder and stop trying to trick me

Netizens’ comments

Don’t take this the wrong way….but hold out for months. If they are genuine people worth your time they will wait. I’ve always dated people for a month at least before anything more than making out happens.

I’m sorry to hear that. I was thinking that maybe you should start a course, activity or hobby you consider best for you, or that you’ve been postponing for a long time. It’s like ‘finding your tribe’. It’s not the easiest way, but maybe you could find someone with similar tastes and who isn’t planning to go straight to bed

Finding a good match is not easy, It takes time and more when you have such facilities as Tinder to get laid nowadays. I really hope you get to know a good person who values you for who you are. Another thing could try is therapy, at least for some time. You could evaluate if you are sending some kind of mixed signals, I don’t know anymore lol