Okay so. I have a story to tell, in exchange give me some advice man.

Here it goes:

So recently I met a guy. To me, he’s charismatic and charming. So he texted me on Facebook for the first time and asked me out for dinner. I usually don’t agree to things like that because I have social anxiety. But that day I just happen to feel a little confident and I actually agree to meet. So we did.

He drove from his place to the place that I am at, and after a short conversation, I “up his pirate ship” (上了贼船) and then we went for dinner. Everything went well, i offered to AA for dinner, but he said it was fine. Then he sent me home. I thought the night was just gonna end like this, but we somehow agreed on going for a night drive and so we did.

I brought him to meet my friends and we had a super long night. It even ended with a kiss. It was one of the cutest night I’ve ever had, and romance is totally my thing. But omg this is where my emotional nightmare begins too.

We started talking more and everything seem normal, we did talk about some sexual topic too, he started it, but because I have a HSD, so I went along, it was a norm to me. We were able to talk for hours and it was amazing.

The next meet up happen because he offered to send me home on his own. Just nice we both ended work, and he went like “I send you home”. My god, ofc I said yes. Long story short the night ended with a blowjob. LOL

To be honest, he kind of did everything right. No red flags seem to appear. However my 6th sense told me to CSI him, and I did. His FB was super private so it was kinda hard.

Well, I found out he’s married with a son.

The timeline seem a bit off, they aren’t friend on Facebook, but the wife profile picture is still their wedding photo, so I actually gave him a benefit of a doubt maybe he’s separated. The last time the wife posted a photo of them was on April.

But I also saw on September, another girl tagged him tell him don’t find Asian gf.. What does that even mean… ????????‍ Slowly I found out even more evidence and it kinda make me sick in the stomach. I also found out that he has actually been planting his presence around me after I CSI him, he has been texting me since 2015. LMAO

Right now we are still talking, but it wasn’t as passionate the first time anymore. I do kinda like him, but I don’t know what to do. Do i confront him about it and ask for the truth? I’ve consulted my friends and they say “Married man will always choose family in the end”, I agree but I am not sure if they are still together. Or do I just ghost him, block him and forget about him? Im someone that needs closure, so I really don’t know what I should do. LOL