In a dry spell. Need help!

I used to meet a lot of guys on dating apps and my dating life was good for a while. But then I really started hating apps and I got ghosted after a date and the anxiety of not looking like my pictures really freaks me out.

So I started trying to meet guys in real life …. And now I’m going through a dry spell and haven’t been on a date, or slept with any men for a really long time.

I don’t drink often. So I don’t frequent bars that often. The only time I really see attractive men is at the gym. But they never hit on me there.

What’s a girl gotta do to meet a guy in person? I don’t know how to meet new men.

Netizens’ comments

Guys in 2023 are pretty explicitly taught to NOT approach women in person just because they see them in a grocery or coffee shop or bookstore and think she looks cute. That’s what we used to do in 1990, but now it’s considered creepy. But, women can still do it. So, start asking cute guys in grocery store produce section how to know if this melon is ripe. That’s what us guys used to do in 1990! Send him a signal that he can make a move to exchange numbers.

Find happiness whatever that looks like to you…it can be a good step in the right direction, boost confidence and that’s hot as hell. Make friends with other girls who do get hit on in the gym. Oh and don’t be easy…nothing drives a man crazy then wanting something they can’t have

Got a hobby? Go hang out with people who share your hobby and meet guys that way.

That’s exactly what I did and exactly how I feel ! The gym is where I find attractive woman, but they never give me enough eye contact to know for sure she is interested, granted I only look briefly in between sets

I volunteer myself as tribute.