I (20F) walked in on my Boyfriend (22M) cheating on me with his long time friend

My boyfriend who I’ll call K and I had been dating for 4 years. Afte graduation he asked me to move in with him, I agreed so that we could be together while we went to uni.

Over the years we made amazing friends here and he was just as kind to me as when we first started dating. Cute awkward text messages, surprise gifts and flowers at least once every two weeks. We had a date night every Thursday after work as well. He also told me he loved at least once a day.

Well, last week I got out of work early. I was in a good mood. On my way home from work I picked up some of his favorite donuts and went home.

When I walked in the door, I could immediately hear the moaning. I walked to our bedroom to see that our friend Elly was on top of him.

My heart dropped. Theyd known eachother for 10 years but they were never close, or so I thought. They didn’t notice me until I’d dropped the donuts.

They quickly covered themselves up and K got up to try and explain the situation to me, but I wasn’t hearing any of it. I packed a bag and left to my friends house.

I spent a week at my friend’s house wondering if I wasn’t satisfying him enough and what I did wrong. Both k and Elly bombarded me with messages trying to explain themselves.

K told me that it just happened. He said this really was the first time and it wasn’t planned at all. That I should know this isn’t the real him.

He explained that she came over and that one thing just lead to another and it was a mistake he’d do anything to fix. He’s sent me pictures of an engagement ring as well. Elly messaged me as well, saying how she never meant to hurt me and that it wasn’t supposed to be this way.

I decided to call my friend Ian and explained the situation to him. I asked him if he’d be willing to come with me and help me to grab my things while K was at work in the morning. I explained the situation to my friends and family and they all agree that leaving is the best option.

I will be taking all of my things and leaving. I don’t plan on telling K anything. He Will just come home to a partially empty home.