we booked a staycay in early aug for the last weekend of aug, and this week he just got invited to his friend’s wedding.

also, he is unable to bring a +1 as the friend said there are not enough seats.

he said that he’ll be going on saturday from 6pm onwards so i’ll be alone all the way until midnight-ish in the room. he said he’ll come back after that and spend the night with me.

Firstly, he accepted the friend’s invite so late minute, and that he did not care about how I’d feel being left alone in the room for half a day when this is supposed to be our staycay.

It’s like damn sus for a close friend to send an invitation so last minute. & I don’t think he respects my time and treats me like an option.

I’ve turned down my friends’ or family’s invites to go out on that particular weekend because we got our staycay booked. But I don’t think he understands that this is basic respect.

I won’t be upset at all if his friend invited him before we made plans and I won’t stop him from going at all.

I just find it very disrespectful for half-canceling on me we agreed to spend the weekend together beforehand. He made it seem like I’m making mountains out of molehills as he’ll be coming back after that.

AITA for being mad about this? Should I be more understanding and cincai to wait in the room for him lol? Please advise. Thank you!