Ok to dump a girl for getting fat? Assuming she’s getting chubby. She wasn’t the slimmest to begin with, but now it is honestly starting to get to me.

For background, we’ve been dating for about 1 and 1/4 years. I gym run and cycle q regularly and I’m clearly an ectomorph.

She says she exercises around 3 times a week but its clearly not showing results. I think its a combination of her endomorph body, lifestyle, work stress and overall net caloric intake.

Due to our work schedules, we exercise together only occasionally.

I havent told her my concerns yet. I plan to soon but I’m not sure how she’ll take it as I don’t believe anybody has really told her that shes chubby.

Before anyone slams me for being a shallow male pig, I think physical compatibility in a relationship is very important.

I just can’t shake the thought that we’re not physically compatible and it keeps playing in my mind. What do y’all think? OK feel free to slam me now.

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my qn to you is – why jump straight to breaking up with her, instead of communicating to her on changing her lifestyle? i suspect the weight issue may just be an excuse to breakup with her. perhaps you find that the relationship isnt worth the effort?

Nah you started the relationship thinking you can change her into someone you want her to be. You didn’t love her wholly as person in the first place anyway. I hope she finds someone who embraces her for who she is, physically, mentally and what not.

So you found her physically compatible when you guys first got together even when you said she wasn’t the “slimmest to begin with”?

Do her the favour and dump her, you don’t deserve her.