There is a particular someone who is working as an insurance agent I know which I’m considering pursuing but I’m not sure if I should continue. Like idk she seems my type and I just want to get to know her more and vice versa. But there are some things which set me back.

It’s normally group meetups so there are like 6-10 other people there (and we all know one another). It’s hard to 1 to 1 in a big group and I don’t want the other people on the group to have suspicions towards me.

She takes long to reply my texts and it’s usually just general replies. Like I ask her basic questions like ‘Hey you going?’ and she relies like ‘Yeah. You going too?’ and it mostly stays that way. Like I don’t wanna start asking things too personally but I dunno how to move along.

Don’t really know how to have a proper convo with her within the group or have a good opportunity to. Like she is talking to other people (and vice versa for me) so I don’t know how to slide into talking to her and trying to talk to her when going back isn’t feasible as we live in different parts of Singapore. Like the best way I can think of is to follow the group for supper after the activities but still the group is there.

What should I do to maximise my chances? Or should I just call it quits?

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