The first time we watched a movie together he stroked and took my hand. We feel comfortable with each other and recently also cuddle and stroke each other (not erogenous zones) arms, face, hair, neck, belly…

Yesterday I lay on his chest, his arms were around me and I stroked his arms. He started breathing more heavily and I noticed afterwards he had come in his pants (without touching him there).

He realized I noticed and felt very embarrassed about it, his face turned completely red. I didn’t really know what to say or how to react so I just laughed it off and went to get him some tissues.

I also realized it must have happened 2/3 times before because he would sometimes put on “more comfortable” pants while we were watching a movie.

He is not a virgin, but he has hardly any experience. I wonder if this is normal and what it means. Does he suffer from premature ejaclation? Will it go away or will he continue to come so quickly?

Netizens’ comments

OP you are misinformed, at least some of those are erogenous zones on most people, and the rest can be fairly intimate depending on the nature of the touch.

Take it as a big compliment honey. He is obviously very well into you and fancies you like hell.It can happen when the hormones and senses are overwhelmed. In this case your proximity and smell and touch.

This happens with both genders. I have a close female friend who came from making out without direct genital contact all through her adulthood.

I think I feel bad for the guy. He’s trying very hard to not be creepy or make you uncomfortable, but he’s super into you and you keep giving him all this attention which if he’s anything like me being turned on can be super uncomfortable if not painful.