I just missed out on a hook up because of my belly

When my ex dumped me.. it ended rough and she ended up telling me that my belly disgusted her and got in the way in the bedroom.

I’ve tried a lot of dieting since, but never had the discipline. I’m finally getting somewhere now and am down 6 kg, but I’m still very fat (122 kg)

Anyways I’ve been seeing this girl for the past 2 months and she was over at my place.. we were making out and things go heated.

She asked me if I wanted to f and I did, but my insecurities got the best of me and now I’m scared to get intimate with women..

I came up with a dumb lie and said that I couldn’t due to some medicine I was taking at the moment (sounds like complete bs, I know) and now I’m pretty sure I f-ed everything up..

my ex really messed my self esteem up

Netizens’ comments

She’s sees you. She knows your size. And she still wants to sleep with you!! Take her out again and go for it!!!

Look, you aren’t hiding your weight which means she knew full well what she was doing and what she wanted, and she wanted you, belly and all. Tell her the truth, anyone who actually gives a damn about you won’t judge you for it, and if she does then she isn’t worth it.

Be honest with her. You know what really turns girls on? That’s right, honesty.

Bro.The belly has powers unlike any I have ever seen. The dad bod is so in. Whether it’s giant sweatshirts for a girl to steal. Or it’s the feeling of a big warm safe body to snuggle with at night. Idk but women flirt with me more than ever now that I have a dad bod. My wife loves it absolutely. but don’t give up . The belly will win.