During my uni days I have this hot female friend who often visits me when she visits the country that I was studying in. Once she even agreed to enter my lecture hall and sit next to me. I feel damn sut among my peers then. We would have a meal or hang out with my friends or our common friends whenever she visits. I know she doesn’t like me romantically even though I had a crush on her in my earlier years of knowing her. I’ve resigned to the fact that she’s out of my league but I’m also open to meeting her other hot female friends as sometime she would introduce to me.

Once I asked if I can stay over at her hotel in a joking manner. I slipped and said I may hop over to her bed in the middle of the night. She had a boyfriend that time and I think I may have startled her. She said she trust me but she’s going to ask her boyfriend. She said ok but I changed my mind. I chickened out as I don’t trust myself.

Not long after I got into an accident. I wasn’t seriously injured but I needed money for surgery. I hid it from my parents and some friends but I confided in her that I needed money. She didnt hesitate to loan me a sum. I know she was earning at least $6,7k a month and can help me out easily.

The thing I regret doing was, after I had the surgery and got better, I avoided her. I didn’t have the money to return her as I was still a student. I was living on cup noodles and selling off my stuff to tide through. She didn’t chase for the money for over a year until I missed her deadline then she called my parents. So in the end I took money from my parents and returned her the money. After that I never heard from her again.

Its been years and I regret what I did. I stayed single, I had a few ons but none of these women can compare to her. She’s pretty, slim, had the right figure and height, a great job. Always happy and positive. I’ve always thought she’s like a real life goddess.

She has since married her then bf and became a mother. I tried to message her but she never replied. Sometimes I look back and think if I didn’t make such a mistake maybe I could have a chance to be with her.

This is my regret. Don’t live life as though there’s no consequences to the decisions you make. If I can turn back the time, I would have been a better man and hopefully be able to attract her to be mine.

Netizens’ comments

You are truly the worst kind of friend. People lend you money during your hard times and you ghost them without returning the money. Good that she ditched you out of her life

You totally deserved not hearing from her again. It’s not too late to be a better man for yourself but doesn’t sound like you’ve had much growth.

Err don’t think u could have gotten her anyway sorry bro