Best/worst first date you’ve been on?

I wanna know cos I wanna feel better about myself. Idk if it’s in sg only, but first dates almost feel like a test to me. Like the girl is assessing me or smth.

There was one date I went for where the girl agreed to go on a second date with me. But she pretty much sent me a list of things I did wrong in the first date.

I felt so stumped and quite honestly embarrassed that I didn’t want to go on the next date. Things worked out for me cos I got Covid and the chat just fizzled out.

One of the things she said was that I didn’t walk on the outside to shield her from cars. It was an empty road we were walking by and the pavement was so narrow that I was walking behind her.

Did she expect me to walk on the road to shield her from the cars? Another thing she said was that I didn’t “dress up” for the dinner.

I just wore jeans and a T-shirt cos it was a casual dinner and dessert at bugis. Did she want me in a suit? She also told me she was a little upset because I agreed when she offered to go Dutch.

So am I supposed to vehemently disagree when she says she wants to pay then offer to pay in full? Basically the date was a mess and I felt like I was doing most of the talking while she just answer questions and sat there and looked pretty. I still asked her on a second date and got a whole performance review in return 🥲

Any stories from you guys and ladies?

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Worst date: Met at a mrt station, she saw me, say I am too short for her. Said I cheated her feelings. And then she left. Lol.

She brought a guy friend to meet me without my advance knowledge. I ended up talking mostly to the dude through the 2hrs+ cafe date, and paid for all of us (including the guy’s share). Dude didn’t even offer to pay for his meal; At least leave me your number la bro since we clicked rather well throughout the session.