Hubby is always frustrated/angry with me

I do not know what to do anymore. My hubby is always frustrated/angry with me.

He is a good hubby. He does his work and returns home on time everyday. He doesn’t smoke, doesn’t drink and don’t have any bad habits. However, he gets frustrated at the tiniest things I do. I have been very gentle with him as I know that he has constantly been in a bad mood. I encourage him, treat him affectionately, don’t raise my voice with him.

The other day he left him without a mask and came back for it. When he ask me to take one for him, I did not know which one he was referring to and he got very upset, then he got angry.

He can also wake up feeling tired, and then take it out on me the whole day. For instance, upset about temperature of water not being right. Raising his voice at me and my son. Now my son is fearful of him and asks why Daddy is always in a bad mood. The worse thing is, he raises his voice at me in public, at my son too, which I hate.

I have tried talking to him numerous times. I told him how I felt, I gave suggestions on how we can handle situations together. I have learnt to stop speaking when he raises his voice with me so as not to aggravate him further. I have learnt to focus on my son and myself when he is in an awful mood. But it happens so frequently. I asked him what he is upset about, but he says nothing, he is just tired.

I left my job to take care of our son, so I am not financially dependent. I am surviving on my savings as I do not take money from my hubby. I am at my wits end as to what I can do in this situation. He is not open to counselling (which I have suggested to him). His mother could also tell that he is in a foul mood as he takes it out on her occasionally too.

I feel lonely, scared and unloved. He doesn’t treat me lovingly anymore. He doesn’t care about our son too.I just need an outlet to let this out.