As someone who values loyalty and trust in friendships, I never thought I would find myself in this situation. My friend, let’s call him Garrison, owes me a significant amount of money, but instead of repaying me, he chooses to spend his money on tipping bar girls. And to make matters worse, the bar girls see him as a moron who is giving them free money.

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It all started a few months ago when Garrison and I decided to take a trip together. We had been planning this trip for months, and we both agreed to split the expenses equally. Everything was going smoothly until the trip ended, and it was time for Garrison to pay me back. He kept making excuses and postponing the payment, saying he was short on cash at the moment. I trusted him and gave him the benefit of the doubt, thinking that he would eventually pay me back.

But as time went by, I noticed that Garrison had no intention of paying me back. Instead, I would see him posting pictures on social media, partying and having a great time. It didn’t make sense to me how he could afford to go out and have fun but couldn’t pay me back the money he owed me. I started to feel frustrated and betrayed by his actions.

It wasn’t until one night when we went out to a bar that I realized where his money was going. As we were getting ready to leave, I saw Garrison pull out a wad of cash and give it to one of the bar girls as a tip. I was dumbfounded. I couldn’t believe that he had the audacity to tip someone when he couldn’t even pay me back. And it wasn’t just a small tip; it was a significant amount of money.

I confronted him about it the next day, and he simply shrugged it off, saying that he wanted to show off and impress the bar girls. He even had the nerve to say that he thought it would make them like him more. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. Not only was he not taking our friendship seriously, but he was also wasting his money on trying to impress strangers.

But what bothered me the most was how the bar girls saw him. They saw him as a moron who would give them free money. They knew that he owed me a significant amount of money, yet they still took advantage of him. They would flirt with him and entertain his advances, knowing that he would tip them generously. It was a game to them, and Garrison was just another player.

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I tried to make Garrison see reason and understand that he was being used, but he refused to listen. He was blinded by his desire to impress these bar girls and be seen as a big spender. It was clear that he cared more about his image than our friendship. And as much as I wanted to cut ties with him, I couldn’t bring myself to do it. We had been friends for years, and I didn’t want to throw away our friendship over money.

But the situation became even more complicated when other friends started to notice Garrison’s behavior. They would ask me why he hadn’t paid me back yet and why he was spending his money on tipping bar girls. It was embarrassing to have to explain the situation to them, and it made me question our friendship even more.