I have been with my girlfriend for three years now.

About two months ago this acquaintance of ours privately told her that he would be a better fit for her than me.

I’m not going into detail, but he talked about it for about two hours (my gf is a very nice person and just couldn’t leave during the process).

Now, she clearly said no to him and he started blaming her for not trying to be emphatic with him in this difficult moment for him.

This happened 2 months ago and I hadn’t done anything about it because I wanted my gf to handle it.

Flash forward to a few days ago, this guy talks to her again blaming her for the “tense situation” she created and saying he doesn’t care if I’m mad.

I wasn’t physically there when it happened but it made me pretty angry, so I decided to reach them at our university. I wasn’t planning on doing anything, again, but I got there and my GF was very very upset and this made me even angrier.

I gathered a bunch of people I know to tell them what happened. I have done this because I wanted my GF to have someone looking over her when this guy was around (and add a bit of revenge to all this too). He saw me do that from afar, so I mimicked the words “I’ll kick your S”.

I told everyone everything and then I had a semi-polite confrontation with him. I sincerely told him I was baffled on how anyone could think anything like this and tried to warn him that doing anything like this to anyone else would probably result in his ass actually getting kicked, but he is lucky because I’m not the type of person who would ever do so. I left mid-conversation telling him “just don’t get close to her again, f you.” because he was saying he didn’t feel the need to say he is sorry.