So basically my girlfriend 19, i’m 21 btw, in a three and a half years together, only slept once at my place before because she has really strict parents and they never let her stay out at boyfriends.

Yesterday we hung out with my friends and she decided to lie to her parent and come sleep at my place. Before we met with my friends at my place, she told me that she needed to go home, and she asked me to drive her home, by 8/9AM, the next morning; so i told her that it depended on when we were going to sleep.

We went to sleep at 4:30/5AM and she woke up at 8:30 PRETENDING that i drove her home after 4 hours of sleep. I refused because i don’t want to drive while I’m sleeping and i didn’t want to drink a ton of coffee to wake up (i also drank 2/3 beers yesterday night and was still vaguely dizzy from that too, other than beeing tired).

Let me make something clear before i continue, we live around a kilometre apart so it’s not that long of a trip but the road, for half of the trip, is really really bad and has some turns where, if you’re driving, you don’t really see what’s next so i really didnt want her to go home alone.

I told her that i could pay for a MRT ride that would have shorten the trip to a quarter of the length and made her avoid the turns part and she said no, i told her that if she waited a couple of hours i could have driven her home but apparently she “has to study” (by being on her phone texting me how mad she is) so she had to go home early.

So anyway she decided to walk home and her dad found her on the way home so she had to tell him everything and i think she’s mad also because her dad told her that she should be. And today is also kinda hot which makes it worste.

So, am i at fault for not driving her home?

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