How do I get over the fact I’ve been lied to by my partner?

When we first started dating she branded herself as someone who is clean due to religious reasons but ltr in the rs I found out she actually kissed some of her dates (they were not officially bf gf) and when I asked, she said it was just a peck.

I’m troubled because of the fact that when we first kissed, she made it such that it was a big deal and I took a step back but knowing this now paints a different picture in my mind.

We’re official and the fact that she can do this to any other guy and not blink an eye and lied to me bothers me a lot.

Here are what netizens think:

kissing is unclean? then u better not kiss any girl before u marry them cuz u make them unclean

I guess u are not upset by her being physical with other guys, but how she lies and brand herself as super pure and virtuous to the extent of making a big deal when you guys first kiss. Tbh major turnoff. And character issues. Just observe her more if she’s lying abt who she is in other aspects before u call it a day.

From how you describe her, she doesn’t seem to be an honest person and it sounds like she’s not that sincere about you. Better cut your losses early. Early in the relationship when the road is smooth she already feel the need to lie. What if there are bumps along the way? Unlikely you will believe her words as she had already broken your trust. Don’t waste your time.

She doesn’t sound honest and that into you, tbh. I think you’re a temp bf until she finds someone she really likes. Better you dump her first. Stop investing in this rs.

Reminds me of the time when my guy friend was sharing with me (with a dreamy look) about the first time he held her hand and she was so shy about it. I also knew the girl (quite well in fact, and also know 2 of her exes)… Shy? For just holding hands when she had already… done so much more with other guys before? Oh pls…

If you’re gonna be haunted by this whilst being in a relationship with her, I rather you break up.

If you give other ladies a peck, I wonder how she reacts? A r/s with trust issues, things dun last. It’s like a cracked glass. How to continue keeping it?