This took place at a family dinner, me, uncle, grandad, aunt, her 2 female kids, gran all present.

I’m very different from the rest of my family, most notably being the only one who isn’t at all racist, going to university, and being worth by far the most ($350k, lucky with bitcoin) at 21.

Anyway, I’m dating a Thai girl at the moment, really sweet but my family very clearly has a problem with it.

Grandmother brought the subject up for the millionth time saying a load of stereotypes e.g. eat dogs, manipulative. Repeatedly told her I don’t care, and didn’t get her to shut up but no severe reaction.

Gran then brought up the “she’s only after your money” line, something which is frankly downright dumb when I don’t tell anyone, live a normal student lifestyle, and international students notoriously get charged stupid amounts of money.

My Thai girlfriend is 10 times richer than the average Singaporean.

Pointed this all out to her, she STILL would not shut up.

A minute later she randomly says “China (she’s not even china) girls are attracted to money, be careful”. By this point I was really losing it and told her “All women are attracted to money hence why I don’t tell anyone, what is your point?

So sick of hearing your braindead crap”. I was expecting this to get her to shut up, it ended up provoking everyone at the table. Uncle/grandad found it funny but aunt got up and downright started screaming at me I was being disrespectful and to get out. Said she’s overeacting and then her daughters join in calling me a sexist, told them all to go fuck themselves and walked out.

Yeah what I said wasn’t particularly politically correct, but I absolutely swear that was an overreaction on their part. I was calm despite being irritated with their constant racism/remarks towards gf, I say one vaguely offensive thing and they blow up. AITA here?