My mother is in her mid 50’s and she’s well capable of working. She hasn’t worked an actual job in about 13 years because she expects all of her kids to basically give her an allowance for her to do whatever she wants.

Every time I give her money she needs some more the day after and she always has “financial issues” she needs to fix. She even went to Korea last year in November to get surgery for her butt and waist(plastic surgery not medical) and expected all her children to send her a thousand dollars but none of us complied so she had to ask a friend to let her borrow money. (Which now she wants us to help her pay it back but we are still not falling for it)

Like I mentioned before she’s well capable of having a job but chooses not to.

She expects her 4 children to take care of her but we have our own responsibilities and financial hardships. It bothers me the most because since she is a narcissistic manipulator and knows I’m the easiest one to manipulate she loves to put all her burdens on me because she thinks I will help her do it.

But I am tired of her taking advantage of only me out of all her children and always asking me for money and favors. AITA for no longer allowing her to juice me and take advantage of me? For some context, I am 24 and married (and pregnant) My little sister is 17 ( but part time employed and studying) and my two big brothers are in their early 30’s and they’re married and they have children)