It’s perfectly normal to have dating preferences — but how common is it to size someone up based on the university they attended?

Singaporean TikToker Neha (@tbh.neha) recently sparked discussion after sharing a video about a date where the man revealed his rather… specific criteria when it came to a potential partner’s educational background.

“You know how there’s certain things you think in your head but never say out loud because you’re socially aware enough to know you shouldn’t say them?” Neha said.