Matthew Lillard has been a star for decades but has impressively kept a low profile when it comes to his personal life. However, he recently gave fans some super-rare details about how his kids are doing, and which one doesn’t give “zero effs” about acting.

Now, before we get started, let’s talk about his sweet family of five. For those who don’t know, Lillard has been married to Heather Helm since 2000. They originally met back in 1998, and for Lillard, it was love at first sight. Since then, they’ve welcomed three children named Allison Grace Lillard, born in June 2002, Macey Lyn Lillard, born in Oct 2004, and Liam Lillard, born in April 2008.