NSF ONLY EARNS $630/MONTH, BUT STILL NEEDS TO GIVE MUM 1/6 OF IT EVERY MONTH
Singapore Uncensored·2024-04-21 07:00
am I in the wrong or justified?
Context: I’ve been giving my mum 1/6 of my $630 allowance each month but recently I’ve had second thoughts about giving it to her since I want to save enough money for my own expenditure AND i am planning to go for therapy sessions, but I don’t want to seem “unfilial”(?)
Idk how to go about talking to her about it as every time I brought up money issues that I had, she just kept demanding for it anyways.
I know it’s a norm in SG culture to give back to parents once u start “working” but now I can’t seem to part with my money as easily. Am I being stingy? Would really like to hear everyone’s thoughts on this.
Bro explain to her that u need to save for ur future expenses once u ord trust me u wont land a job immediately and if u gonna go back to school u need to save for ur fees and expenses what not u include transport food everything else not even much left to save
It’s not an SG culture thing. NS allowance is NOT SALARY. So I don’t see the need to give any.
is she the one carrying the field pack? marching? cleaning the rifle? sleeping in the jungle? spending 5 days away from home every week?if she can survive on her own with her own money and her own savings I see no reason as to why you have to give her a part of your allowance. especially since you want to use some of it for your own mental health. save some, spend some, be happy. keep the money. I hope she can see reason, or leave you alone at least.
That is simply unreasonable. $630 is barely enough to cover our essential spending, not forgetting that we have to save up for future needs like pursuing higher education. You can try talking to her and explaining your situation.
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Marcusong@gmail.com Marcus7054 25/04/2024
halo pls dun complain ok during my time as A LCP i only get 270+ everything in only ard 300+ u are far being better than during my ns time
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peace1 24/04/2024
during my time pay only $90.00 as recruit. taking away my bus fare...I gave all the rest to my mom. She never ask..but I have no need of that money than...so give lo.. Half way thru ns.. hehe got GF... need to go makan.. mom actually return all I have given to her back to me ..and she say... she is just saving for me.. in this world Mom is the best...
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Original Geylang 24/04/2024
this is a pretty gd sum. a lot of us used to draw only $120 per month... and we still need pocket money from parents to go thru NS. and our Gov has the cheek to post us very far away from our home to train us to be independent. but the transport fare and expenses is killing us especially when our book in timing is 2359hrs
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Selamat Khan Khan 23/04/2024
my ns time salary $340 give my grandma $40 left $300 still can survived
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Shih Wei Yip 25/04/2024
Takw it as a force saving for big ticket item lei . Hse down payment , marriage or r school fee lei
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