PETITE WOMAN IN LATE 20S, SICK OF BEING SEEN AS A XMM BECAUSE OF HER SMALL SIZE
Singapore Uncensored·2024-03-11 12:05
ppl around me often see me as a XMM because of my physique and my personality and it’s bugging me as I want to be taken more seriously and I’m not young anymore at all, so what can I do?
This has been bugging me a lot. People around me – from colleagues to friends, acquaintances and even ppl I’ve just met, all share the perception that my personality is like a XMM and I’m “cute”. And not just physically.
One time my boss casually mentioned to our group that I’m like the “small sister” of the group. And one time I met this girl, she’s much younger than me, and 30 mins into chatting she ardy commented that I seem like someone who’s nice to bully (not in a mean way more like poking fun)
I’m in late 20s, have a professional job, very petite, I like to dress casually most of the time and doesn’t carry around any luxury bags or stuffs.
Why this bugs me is because I feel like this implies they don’t really take me & my opinion as seriously and have the impression that I can be pushed around easily. I have to say that my personality is quite meek, can’t hide my emotion, I’m nice but a little bit awkward around ppl sometimes and am goofy and laugh a lot.
But I am totally independent, take care of myself well, and like to care and listen to others.
I don’t know what is it I do that make ppl perceive me like this. I don’t see friends or colleagues around me having the same issue so I can’t ask for their help.
So what should I do? Change my fashion? Be more aggressive and confrontational? Less nice and acts more aloof? Play more mind game?
Any input is really appreciated! 🙂
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Userftd7 13/03/2024
lol when you are in your 50 wish to be called xmm also no more chances
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Userclcx 13/03/2024
Haello, are you too free?. Why care so much, on how others treat/think about you?. Do they pay your expenses??..😇😇😇
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Dass 13/03/2024
I have seen many being looked and bullied like this b4. The only one I noted not experiencing this is the one holding high position because no one dares to say or look down on u. when u hold the power of position ifs your best card. Your education is your biggest strength. Even former president of India late Mr Abdul.Kalam knew this so he invested in education. Everyone respects his intelligence & and the position he holds.
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